The parents of the world cherishs his children mostly, this has become the unassailable truth that accepts for everybody. However, actually a lot of parents had undertaken to children spirit is mistreated, be themselves does not know right-down only. This is not exaggerate sth just to scare people. Of the United States a few psycho person think with paediatrics doctor, parents is in imperceptible in the mind that has to children is mistreated but reduce 3 kinds, the author gives this interpret now, the hope can wake up to reality like that because of this long narrow flag about parents.
One, exterior inhospitality. Some parents for strict requirement children, intended before them happy event is happy not form at color, still have some of father and mother the paddle one's own canoe consciousness to raise the child, often show the pattern of be indifferent to sth to everything their.
Little imagine, these parents often make their child loses safety to depend on feeling, children will be gradually aloof they, be opposite no longer their confide in sb, because these already were endured actually,to spirit mistreated child fears to suffer be rebuffed and cold shoulder.
2, censure exaggeratedly. When some parents are criticizing the child of err thing, the habit is used " always " , " all along not " the word of and so on, to the child's past and other everything undertakes the overall of irresponsible, exaggerate denies. Because hope children will have a bright future,still have some of father and mother the heart is cut, love uses the child that will ask he is minor to adult standard. The business that a few children do, to their in that way age already can says " feat " , but eye of the adult that be used by their parents is measured, become footy, very little, not worth to be carried.
The mental stimulation that does children to bring so cans be imagined. May contuse if really ever since the enthusiasm that children get on into orientaton, make the disposition with their self-abased and recreant be afraid of getting into trouble, incompetent nurturance.
3, of love manacle. Two pairs of some parents out loves femaly, the method that commonly used menace threatens will manacle them, be about to make they spare disaster. Have such one example, shang Mi of 4 years old has done tonsil resection, was about to recover, however at this moment the fox that the nurse discovers to he becomes unconventional leaves alone group, did not agree to speak with anybody. Later, the doctor understands, the mother of original Shang Mi to can invite a son at an early date cured, he says gally, if he is right,stranger speaks with respect to earthborn.
Do father and mother use children to trust to her, let their place oneself at bloodcurdling condition, all day nervous, be nervous, is the spirit that is this cruelty mistreated?
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